Growing up we had traditions for everything. We had traditions coming out our ears.
One of them was our "Children for Children Concert."
Around Christmas-time, my parents would invite all our neighbors over for a concert performed by children (their children...and us), and the admission price was whatever each family wanted to anonymously stick in an envelope at the door. Each year the donations went to different causes. I don't remember all of them, but I do specifically remember one that was aimed to help kids in Africa. My heart caught fire on that one. I pictured all those kids over there needing my help and pledged a bunch of my hard-earned money right along with the other parents. I think that's one of the reasons I finally got to go to Africa a few years ago...I had sent my heart over there many years before and had to go retrieve it.
Well, every year since my kids have been old enough to understand this type of thing I've felt compelled to throw our own "Children for Children" concert at Christmas-time. I want so much for them to feel the meaning of giving more powerfully. But I have always pushed my urge to the back-burner. I gave myself an out. My brain was strained to the max into the wee hours of the morning editing endless photoshoots. There was no room for extra service, for crying out loud!
But this year the door was ajar. Sure, other things have piled in to overflowing where the absence of photography left any holes, but seriously, I needed to get a grip. Plus, well, my kids were all over the idea like bees on honey. With all this "I Love Lucy Project" stuff floating around our house all I had to do was mention the idea of a concert to raise money for blindness and they were there, hook, line and sinker.
So, we had our concert.
And man oh man am I ever happy it's over with!
Wait, did I just say that out loud?
I kid. It was a lot of work, but it was sure worth it.
I think the biggest "work" for me was to really let my kids take the reins. I mean, it is a "children" for "children" concert, after all...no parents being all bossy in that title. And man, I have a hard time letting go and not taking control. But "let go" I did, and I have to say that these kids did an awesome job.
They delivered every invitation to the neighbors on their bikes (except the two that got lost under a stack of mail on my desk).
They made calls to ask people to bring extra chairs.
They tracked down a microphone for us to use (which ended up not working but at least they tried).
They made all the phone calls to find out who was doing what talents, dictated it to me for the program which was embellished with their artwork.(A little blurry but you get the picture...)
They made up the treats to give out as people left and helped with the refreshments.
But most importantly, they were the MCs. And I kept my mouth shut almost the whole time.
Don't get me wrong, this whole little deal sure as heck didn't go off without a hitch. My kids all looked like ragamuffins, the house is STILL not done with my little re-sprucing project, I was in a bad mood all day in preparation because everything was caving in on me and everyone seemed to need something or other at the same time. Dave had to remind me we were actually doing this for Lucy, who I was mad at for throwing multiple fits at the last minute. BUT, still, it was all SO worth it to see those kids up there conducting things and beaming their cute smiles.
This house was jam-packed with the best talent-sharing kids around. My brother set up this video for people to watch while they were enjoying the refreshments, and the donation box filled up with almost $600 to help fight blindness. The great thing about that is that the Eyrealm Foundation will match all those donations, so together this group of wonderful neighbor kids collected $1,200 to help find cures for blindness. And THEN I found this link last night and realized that if we get the donation in by the 31st (which, of course, we will) it will double AGAIN to make a grand total of $2,400 to fight blindness. Now that's not too shabby!
If anyone else wants to get their donations doubled by the Eyrealm Foundation, then doubled again by these generous people in the video above, just send donations into the address on this post.
Thank you SO much to everyone who came. We adore you. And Lucy, along with the estimated 100,000 other people in the U.S. dealing with retinitis pigmentosa join us in thanking you for these donations that will help them so much!
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